Angry Housewives Eating Bon Bons
by Lorna Landvik
My book club read this book as our September selection. I was brave and hosted the meeting in my house. My entertaining had previously been limited to having a few close friends or family over. There were probably 10 people here last night. I think it went well though. I provided the drinks and the other ladies provided the food. I was able to use my Polish pottery and Turkish glasses. Kenny took Sophie to Costco in Victorville and didn't get back until the meeting was over, so I was able to have some adult time.
The book is about a group of women who live on one street in Minnesota. The story spans several decades...from 1968 to 1998. The women, who are very diverse, form a book club that meets for 30 years. We military wives felt amazed and a little sad when considering the length of time that these women had together. I can't fathom having a 30 year history with anyone but my parents. We talked about how perhaps we're able to make deeper friendships a little faster because of our unique situation, but we acknowledged how there may only be two or three people in the course of a military career who are really kindred spirits.
A point that we didn't talk about in the book club meeting, but one that really struck a chord with me, was the idea of uniting mothers around the world to stop war and halt violence. Since I've become a mother, images and stories of suffering children really tear at my heart. What if something were to happen to Sophie? I read an article about the Katrina victims. One seven (?) year-old boy led several other children to safety, one of them barely able to walk. What if Sophie were separated from me during a disaster and she had to follow someone barely old enough to go to school? And natural disasters are things that can't be helped. What about wars and other forms of violence that could be helped? Mothers are very protective of their children. I think a united front of mothers could be very effective. We might be able to set aside ethnic and religious and other differences for the safety of our children. It's a powerful idea if someone could only think of a way to implement it.
This book wasn't a page turner for me like
Kite Runner was, but it was a pleasant read with some good ideas.